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Over-Stressed over Stress ?????

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Hey there all the readers , Hope you are all doing great  and having a nice summer time either in your life or season wise , and even if you are not , hope the summer touches you sooner. My last week went mostly occupied with my usual work and in the penning down my thoughts and framing a write-up .Though I did write some snippets of one thing or the other , but couldn’t really get my thoughts in a unanimous direction. Until I happened to read a wonderful message from a reader and now my soul-mately friend; he wanted to know my views on how we can channelize our emotions in difficult situations. Well I am no expert at it, maybe for the people who critically know me well, know the kind of temperament I hold, but there are indeed some learning’s I took , over the years from certain messy,unwanted situations I got myself into. I shall try to write down some things one can work on. But before that remember this and remember well : Never ever over evaluate you own self.

Ye kahan Aa gaye hum ???

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Hi there, so while trying to choose what to write on next, I was baffled.  I was struggling between deciding whether I should write a poetry like the previous one, that got so much of love from you all ( thanks  a lot for that ) or something abstract. While this confusion prevailed and I couldn’t settle with one thing, I decided to embrace this confusion and possibly put it all down in words. I am sure like this small confusion I had;  many times in life we all are at such  Crossroads .   Although a literal definition of crossroads might be something like "the point where two roads meet”, but for us it literally means an excessive amount of confusion while choosing certain important things in life. Completing or nearing a quarter of our life, we all somewhat are at different crossroads in life. Some of us are struggling with making career choices, pursuing higher education or settling or not settling in life, facing challenges with our parent’s health or are simply tryi

Aj bhi..

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Aj phir unhi rahon se guzre hum, Aj phir ussi aalam mein uljhe hum. Aj phir unke ghar ki khidki,  pe gadi thi nazar , Aj phir baaton mein tha, unki yaadon ka asar. Aj bhi yaad hai unke   bahon ki vo garmahat; Aj bhi kanon mein goonjti hai,unki   hassi ki vo khankhanat. Aj bhi nahi bhooli unke   hathon ki vo narmiyan, Aj bhi sharamati hu yaad karke, unki vo pyaari besharmiyan. Aj bhi yaad hai unke khandhe pe sar rakhkar , Befikar sa vo sona. Aj bhi yaad hai unse choti si baat pe , khafa hoke mera vo rona. Aj bhi unki nasheli ankhon me dhundhti hu apni  sirf ek jhalak, Aj bhi unke hi naam ki dua, lafzon se pahunchti  hai falak. Aj bhi zinda hun ek, “kash”   ki khawaish mein, Aj bhi ashk bethe hai kimsat ke khel, ki is  numayish mein. Aj bhi shabdon se beyaan nahi ho pata ,dil mein chupa unse judaai ka gum. Aj bhi ankhon se nahi beh pata,unki is behrukhi  ka dard. Aj bhi jagti hun har din,inhi uljhano ke sath. Aj bhi soti

Let's Celebrate The Women!!

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Here's to strong women: May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them !                                            Happy Women’s Day 2018!!! History as to why we celebrate this day : After women gained suffrage in Soviet Russia in 1917, March 8 became a national holiday there. The day was then predominantly celebrated by the socialist movement and communist countries until it was adopted in 1975 by the United Nations. According to its official website,  International Women's Day  has been marked for well over a century, with the first March 8 International Women's Day gathering supported by over a million people in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland.  Well you must think another post about Women and Feminism by a woman blogger! Well no. PERIOD. I am a WOMAN . Somehow, saying this brings a certain level of vanity inside me. Am I a Feminist?   Well honestly, till date I myself have not been able to ascertain this concept. I just believe t