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Secure the Insecurities

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Do you feel that you don’t deserve lasting love and that your partner will inevitably leave you? Do you stay at home, afraid to venture out and meet new people because you don’t feel you have enough to offer? Do you feel overweight, boring, stupid, guilty, or ugly? Standard questions…  Here I ask you.  Do you inevitably feel the need be validated by your partner time and again? Do you feel the sudden sprang of jealousy or anxiousness when your partner mentions an opposite sex and his/fondness towards that person? No matter how much you convince yourself that you truly trust your partner but such feelings really cloud all your sanity, and the next thing you know is that you are frantically obsessing over that person. Now while many might say : "This is completely insane. I don’t feel any such thing." I say, let’s ponder a little more. Insecurities: We’ve all got a few.  Speaking of myself: I DO!    I used to feel embarrassed of this, but have come to r